After the Marriage · 1:1 Coaching

The marriage is over.
You're not.

This is a space to put it down — not to pretend you're fine before you are, but to figure out honestly who you are now and what you're building next.

Book Your Free Discovery Call $100 per session · Founding rate · Session-based

Everyone expects you
to be fine by now.

Men going through the end of a marriage are supposed to handle it. Keep working. Stay strong for the kids. Move on. The script doesn't leave much room for what this actually costs — the grief, the disorientation, the quiet question of what went wrong and who you are without that chapter of your life.

Men push through it alone. Some numb it. A few throw themselves into the next thing before they've made sense of this one. None of those moves deal with what's underneath.

What you carry unexamined doesn't disappear.

This work is about understanding what happened clearly enough that it doesn't run your next chapter for you.

Making sense of it.
So it doesn't make you.

Name what you're grieving

The loss of a marriage is rarely just one loss. It's identity, routine, fatherhood under one roof, the future you planned. This work helps you name all of it — so you can move through it.

Understand your part honestly

The patterns you brought to the marriage are yours, not the marriage's. This work helps you see them clearly — where they came from, how they played out — so you don't carry them unchanged into what comes next.

Build a life that's yours

A clear sense of who you are on the other side of this — as a father, as a man, as someone with a second chapter that isn't defined by what ended.

You're ready to do more
than just get through it.

  • You're in the middle of a divorce or separation and struggling to find ground
  • The marriage ended and you're still carrying it — anger, grief, or both
  • You want to show up well for your kids even when everything else is hard
  • You're starting to ask who you are outside of that marriage
  • You don't want to repeat the same patterns in your next chapter
  • You're ready to be honest about what happened — including your part in it

How It Works

One-on-one. At your pace.
Completely confidential.

The first conversation is free. Thirty minutes. You tell me what's going on. I listen and ask a few questions. At the end, we both decide if this is the right fit — no pressure either way.

Sessions are 60 minutes, one-on-one. We talk about what's actually happening — the grief you're not allowed to show, the anger you don't know where to put, the part of it that's yours to carry. I don't give advice. I help you see clearly.

The real work happens between sessions. You'll leave with something specific to try — a conversation to have, an old pattern to catch, a hard moment to face without numbing. Then we look at what happened, what came up, what you noticed. And we go from there.

You set the pace. Some men come weekly. Some every two weeks. Some disappear for a month when life gets heavy and come back when they're ready. You drive. No contracts. No packages. Your founding rate is locked in for the duration of our work together.

What stays between us, stays between us. Your ex, your kids, your family, your friends — none of it leaves the room. Including anything you tell me about them. This is the one room where you don't have to manage anyone else's reaction.

The Details

Format 1:1 sessions with Mike
Session length 60 minutes
Rate $100 per session · Founding rate
Pace Session-based · You set the pace
Where Video · Charlotte in-person available
Starts with A free 30-minute discovery call
Book Your Free Discovery Call

What you don't examine
you carry forward.

Start with a free thirty-minute conversation — an honest look at where you are and whether this work is the right next step.

Book Your Free Discovery Call $100 per session · Founding rate · Session-based